A person has three choices in life. You can swim against the tide and get exhausted, or you can tread water and let the tide sweep you away, or you can swim with the tide, and let it take you where it wants you to go.
Diane Frolov and Andrew Schneider, Northern Exposure, Northern Lights, 1993
When you point your finger at someone, three fingers are pointing back at you.
When you make a mistake, there are only three things you should ever do about it: admit it, learn from it, and don't repeat it.
Paul "Bear" Bryant, I Ain't Never Been Nothing but a Winner
To the uneducated, an A is just three sticks.
Pooh's Little Instruction Book, inspired by A. A. Milne
actually its not a horrible day - its a nice rainy day
which we need for our newly sown seeds and newly planted shrubs
perfect day to putz around the house - cleaning a bit here and organizing a bit there..
but unfortunately i'm at a birthday party
instead of at home
on my son's mini - which is kinda cool - except that i look like one of "those" moms.....
the ones attached to their computer - tuned into the web instead of to their kid
which i admit - i am at times...but not in public - for all to witness! LOL
but as i look around - there are others reading,
or talking on the phone
or talking to others...
something i find i don't feel like doing as i get older - the making small talk with other moms at parties kinda thing....i mean i did all that with my first child - i talked - i organized playgroups - i wanted to make new mom friends...but i'm kinda burnt out on the 2nd group of moms - the ones of my youngest's friends - not needing a whole new group to hang with. don't get me wrong - i've met new moms - and even like a bunch of them - but i dont feel like making the effort as much as i did before...b/c quite frankly it takes effort to be a friend...and while i really enjoy smiling and being friendly - and i am sincere in my smiles and my friendliness - i am perfectly content at stopping right there.
so for now
i sit at the party
looking like a recluse
on my computer
and i'm okay with that......
(edited to add that here it is - 3 hours after the party - and i ended up talking with other parents...well a dad - someone i went to highschool with - and a mom...who i thought was ANOTHER mom - and told her my son WAS going to her son's party next weekend.............only to find that her son is not having a party next weekend - b/c she is not the mom i thought she was.........
see - maybe its a good thing i don't feel like talking at these things.......
that is if you made a treasure map this weekend! i will admit i haven't started yet. the aries new moon started wednesday the 14th...the day before my trip. i did manage to sneak out and get my magazines but i did not get a chance to open them until thursday while flying on a plane to arizona. i had every intention of focusing on pictures and writing affirmations and planning my map.....but turns out i don't have a huge attention span during pockets of moderate turbulence. in fact - the only thing i could concentrate on while being bounced around the sky was lady gaga and beyonce blaring in my head through my ipod! once we landed went straight to the hotel - grabbed a bite to eat and hit the bed b/c it was now past midnight my time. next day we were picked up early - spent the whole day in meetings - then back to the hotel to get ready to leave the next morning at 7am.......crazy exciting times!
the optimal time to have finished my map would have been saturday nite. that is when the energy is the strongest (during the new moon) - but it just wasn't happening. luckily - you can take 10 more days to finish it (until the 28th)......so i am doing just that. (so if you are toying with the idea of making one you still have time!)
i can't wait to see how it turns out! i have some very specific wishes for this year!!
yesterday i had to stop to fill my car up with gas. that particular gas station has a dunkin' donuts inside the station. the boys immediately started asking for donuts and hot chocolate. instead of my usual "not today" - i took out a $20 and said "ok - go inside and get 4 donuts (for my niece and nephew too) and your hot chocolate" the boys went inside while i pumped gas. i was dying to go inside with them - just to see how cute they must have looked - but i restrained myself and hung back. after a little bit - they came out with their bags filled to the brim. now i'm not sure what exactly happened inside but i'm assuming the owners were tickled by the big brother/little brother combo ordering food that he added a whole bunch of extra goodies....
my oldest came out with a huge grin and proclaimed "i am so proud of myself for going inside and buying food without you nearby!" he gave me back the bills - told me he left the $.86 in the tip jar - and said i could give the cinnamon stick to the "guys in the office". it was such a great moment.
this isn't the first time he's gotten in a line to purchase something - but for whatever reason this is one that stood out the most. maybe it was b/c he was in charge of his little brother - maybe it was b/c he was in a line of adults.......who knows - but whatever it was it was good.
late sunday night my oldest tells me he needs a costume for school. he is doing a presentation on russia and wants to dress as a WWII russian soldier. the costume needs to be ready to bring into school this morning. i work mondays then we have dinner at my parents house. we usually get home late and then homework starts. so at 9 i walk into my craft room and try and figure out how to make a russian soldier costume. thankfully we have some army jackets that he can use. but now we need a hat. i google some images for ideas - find one he likes - and off i go.
now the jacket was easy enough b/c all i had to do was make a star large enough to cover the US Army emblem. its the hat that i'm most proud of. i happened to have a tiny bit of faux fur in my stash. he wanted a red top and i had that felt lying around too....and in less than an hour i had a costume all ready to go.
now this wasn't the first time i had made a costume under pressure. it wasn't even the first time i made a cool looking hat...but for whatever reason i couldn't stop patting myself on the back for a job well done. like my son - this was the one that stood out the most. maybe it was b/c i actually had faux fur ready to use - or maybe it was b/c i didn't have any type of pattern...but whatever it was - it was all good.